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Mrs. Oklahoma
John C. McCornack ![]()
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WHERE IS OKLAHOMA?
Perhaps we first need to determine where it
is not. It is not out West, down South, up North, Back east. As Will Rogers,
Oklahoma's most famous citizen, once said, "Oklahoma is the heart, it's the
vital organ of our national existence." We are the meeting point. We are
where North meets South and East meets West. We are the heartland, the
breadbasket, the backbone of America. We are where the country comes together.
We are where it's at!
Oklahoma's 1994 Vacation Guide says, "Barely
south of the middle of America, Oklahoma is an ecological crossroads, where
eastern and western species of animal and plant life mingle. The Red River
carved out the state's southern border; up north, the Cimarron Rivers runs
along the length of the Panhandle and cuts across the northwest ridge of
the state. Mountains stack up against the eastern border, and a huge swath
of tall grass prairie rolls down from the north."
Excerpt from Mr. Nigh's essay
The World of
Dad:
My Dad taught me
Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
OSU Library
Oklahoma Here I
Come!
I have traveled those red dirt
roads
I have enjoyed sunrises and
sunsets
I have visited the parks in late
summer
I have met the most interesting
people
Who knows, perhaps once again
Marilyn Lott © 2008 -
358
Mrs. Oklahoma 1997 in Yukon Parade
Early Day
Oklahoma
"When we got them under herd and where they should
have bedded down for the night they continued to run in every direction;
they would not graze and as badly exhausted as we were, every man had to
stay on guard all night long and those steers would only get quiet for a
few minutes to break into a stampede again."
http://digital.library.okstate.edu/chronicles/v018/v018p371.html
My long time Boss - Felix
Banner skyline
The World of
Dad:
My Dad taught me
When you were born, you were
crying
A New Beginning
Papa's fields stand unplowed now,
Mama's dinner bell still hangs high,
The windmill isn't needed anymore,
Back down the old clay road,
A new beginning.
Ralph L. Clark ©
Vice
"I have never allowed my duty as a gentleman
to interfere with my pleasure in the slightest degree"
Oscar Wilde, "The Importance of Being Earnest"
Simply because a book condemned a practice did
not mean that the practice ceased immediately after the book hit the stands.
It was precisely because people were committing sins, large and small, that
authors felt compelled to advise against them--usually with little
effect.
19th Century American men were men, and were
not significantly more virtuous than men before or since--despite the preaching
of moralists and etiquette writers. The following page discusses a few of
the Victorian gentleman's sins and, when applicable, describes some means
whereby they may be properly committed. This includes the rules to several
popular card games of 19th Century America. Card Games
Euchre
Poker
Faro
Monte
"A man doesn't think he had a good time unless
he has a headache the next morning"
"The hardest part about the 'next morning' is
not the headache; it's the effort to recall what particular story you told
your wife the night before"
"A man seldom escapes temptation because he
is so careful not to let any interesting temptations escape
him"
"It must be awful to live with a man after you
have reformed him and he has become so superlatively good that you don't
feel superior to him anymore"
"College boys are addicted to cigarettes and
flirtations, bachelors to cigars and sweethearts; it takes a married man
to get real joy out of anything so economical as a pipe or a wife"
Reflections of a Bachelor Girl, 1909
"Many are the resorts open to youth who seek
amusement outside the family circle. Brilliant lights, music, exhibitions,
games of chance and skill, and delightful beverages are fascinations hard
to be resisted, but danger lurks beneath these
attractions....
Social pleasures, carried to excess, expose
young men and women to danger of moral corruption and physical disorders.
The feast, the dance, the social glass, immoderately indulged in, with late
hours and evil associates, have often wrought ruin to the pure and good".
Hill's Forms, 1873
"Sometimes people get a habit of spitting--which
they do with much noise as though it gave them an air of importance. The
inhabitants of the United States are notorious for it. It accompanies the
bad custom of smoking or chewing tobacco...that anyone should allow such
a habit to grow upon them is very surprising".
How to Behave. 1853
"I remarked one young man, whose handsome person,
and most elaborate toilet, led me to conclude he was a first rate personage,
and so I doubt not he was; nevertheless, I saw him take from the pocket of
his silk waistcoat a lump of tobacco, and daintily deposit it within his
cheek".
Domestic Manners of the Americans, Fanny Trollope,
1832
"Doctor,"said an old gentleman, who was an
inveterate snuff-taker, to a physician, "is it true that snuff destroys the
olfactory nerves, clogs and otherwise injures the brain?". "It cannot be
true" was the caustic reply, "since those who have any brains never take
snuff at all".
Hints on Etiquette, 1836
"Few women understand, at the outset, that in
marrying, they have simply captured a wild animal, and staked their chances
for future happiness on their ability to tame him. He is beautiful physically
very likely, of pleasing manners and many external graces, and often possessed
of noble qualities of mind and heart; but at the core of his nature he cherishes
still his original savagery, the taming of which is to be the life work of
the woman who has taken him in charge."
Letters from a Chimney Corner, 1886
http://www.lahacal.org/gentleman/vice.html
Thanks for spending a little time in my world ! John McCornack
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